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Wed, May. 24th, 2006, 11:26 pm
noisrevni: Time to get random and help me win a debate.

Would you be upset if, while living together and being sexually active more than twice a week in a committed relationship, your boyfriend watched porn without you?

Would you, while living and being sexually active more than twice a week with your girlfriend in a committed relationship, still watch porn?

There are no right answers, only a running tally. Responses are appreciated. Thanks muchly.

Thu, May. 25th, 2006 03:38 am (UTC)

My ex used to... it didn't bother me too much. My current doesn't like porn, and that's a-okay with me.

Thu, May. 25th, 2006 04:45 am (UTC)

porn doesn't belong in any relationship of which i am a part. hubby is totally cool with it though; i let him know early on how i felt and he promptly agreed.

i am certainly a tiny bit prudish when it comes to porn though... i don't want to watch it and don't understand how couples incorporate individual porn-watching into their relationships.

Thu, May. 25th, 2006 01:26 pm (UTC)

I don't particularly care if he surfs porn on the internet, I like to see anything he thinks is really cool (which he is usually really good about sharing with me anyway).

And I would only be upset about him *watching* movies without me if they were any good or I had any interest in seeing them myself.

I am pretty liberal about porn. I know a few people in the industry. It would creep me out if he were watching *them*, but I also know it would creep *him* out far more to see them. In general though, I don't really have any issues with him having an active and healthy fantasy life that does not specifically involve me. If he was displaying *no* interest in ME, I would feel differently.

But then, my guy is not terribly obsessed with porn either. *shrug*

Thu, May. 25th, 2006 02:39 pm (UTC)

Porn, eh. That doesn't bother me. I would prefer it if he watched it with me, but if not, I probably wouldn't get my undies in too much of a twist over it. Girle mags, on the other hand, would send me through the roof.

Sat, May. 27th, 2006 07:11 pm (UTC)

Nope. It is my opinion that a consenting adult has the right to read/look at/watch any form of legal media they desire. However, if he was looking at legal, but degrading or violent porn that would bother me. Good question.